Content

• Steps
• Method 1 of 4: Maintain Good Communication
• Method 2 of 4: Show Respect
• Method 3 of 4: Make her feel special
• Method 4 of 4: Add Romance
• Tips
• Warnings

Treating women well requires a combination of courtesy and original displays of love and kindness. Follow the instructions below and soon your woman will see who you really are - just a great guy.

Steps

Method 1 of 4: Maintain Good Communication

1. 1 Talk about your feelings. Some men underestimate the importance of their statements to a woman about how they feel. Very often men prefer actions and deeds to words about feelings. If this sounds like you, then know that it is very important for women to hear the words "I love you", so focus on expressing your attitude. If you have trouble pronouncing these words, write a note, use a postcard to show it.
   • The good news is that men are more likely to be the first to declare their love than women.Studies have shown that men do this on average for 88 days (compared to women who confess at 134 days), while other research shows that men are the first to say “I love you” 70% of the time.
   • Choose the appropriate time. Women prefer to hear "I love you" after sex, not before. Words can raise doubts when spoken before sex - it may seem that all this is just in order to get what you want.
2. 2 Be a good listener. Absolutely everyone - not just women - wants to be heard. If you know how to listen, your woman will appreciate it, and the bond between the two of you will grow. Three tips to improve your listening skills.
   • Eliminate distraction. It means turning your back on football and ignoring the sms you just received. Try not to interrupt until it is critical to your understanding of the situation. By focusing all of your attention on the woman, you show that she is important to you, and you appreciate and genuinely take interest in what she has to say.
   • Read non-verbal signs. Gestures, facial expressions, eye movements can all be very important. Listen not only with your ears, but also with your eyes - this way you will get a more complete picture of how she is feeling.
   • Take her point of view. Your woman or spouse may be upset about something that you would never worry about, or they may be telling you a story that you simply cannot imagine yourself to be part of, but - you have to try. By putting yourself in her place, you will better understand what the woman wants to tell you. Even if you disagree with her reaction or opinion, remain open-minded and make it clear that you are on her side in this conflict.
   • Refrain from solving problems. When a woman talks about what problems she faced, the first reaction of a man to this is most often to jump up and run to solve them. This impulse comes from good intentions, but that's not what women want. They just want to be heard, so refrain from the rescue operation with your ready-made solutions for the current situation. If she asks for your opinion on what you would do in her place, calmly give her your recommendations, but do not attack her if he does his own thing.
3. 3 Ask the woman about her feelings. In most cases, you already know how your woman is feeling in a given situation, but sometimes, when a relationship is just starting, you should ask questions. Research published in the journal PLOS showed men images of female and male eyes and found that it is twice as difficult for them to understand how their owner is feeling from female eyes than from male eyes. Moreover, it took men twice as long to interpret women's eyes.
4. 4 Quarrel nobly. Even the closest couples sometimes have discussions; how you talk to your woman during these disagreements is very important. Don't call her names or use physical threats. When the fight is over, don't hold a grudge; take a step towards reconciliation towards your woman. Don't discount her feelings by trying to defend herself or end the argument by cutting her off in mid-sentence. We all need confirmation and acceptance of our feelings.

Method 2 of 4: Show Respect

1. 1 Be a gentleman, behave fairly with her, do not open doors in front of her - so she will think that you think she is weak. But that doesn't mean you have to be rude, just don't act like she's shorter than a man.
2. 2 Be polite. Women love to hear "please" and "thank you." Even if you've been dating or married for a long time, keep your manners in mind. Show her the same concern that you show everyone else.
   • Don't use foul language. Never use obscene words in communication with your woman, even as a joke.If it means a lot to you, make sure your speech reflects it.
3. 3 Don't transfer / cancel plans. If something extraordinary has happened and it is simply impossible to keep the plans, give early warning and give a very good explanation and apology.
4. 4 Be punctual. If you're late for a date, call her and let her know as early as possible. Everyone's time has value, so keeping your word and showing up on time is an elementary courtesy for everyone. Resist the urge not to call back because you know your woman will get angry. Maybe so, but things will get worse if you don't get in touch yet.
5. 5 Behave well with her family. Even if she says she is not very close to her family, always show respect and avoid criticism. Family ties can be strong, and her parents or her siblings can influence her decision whether to date you or not.
   • If the woman has children, be friendly with them and try to get to know them better. Women are quick to part with men who show no kindness to their children. Never break boundaries or try to be a parent and try to discipline her children; leave it to the woman.
6. 6 Avoid jealousy. By jealous of her male friends, coworkers, and exes for no good reason, you show that you consider her to be a person of low moral values ​​and capable of betrayal.
7. 7 Help her around the house. If you live together, get down to business. Both of you are responsible for keeping the house tidy. Don't expect her to constantly clean up after you. The surest way to a woman's heart is with a vacuum cleaner in one hand and laundry detergent in the other.

Method 3 of 4: Make her feel special

1. 1 Remember special days. Prepare a gift and a card for her birthday, Christmas Eve, or Valentine's Day. Celebrating these days with gestures of respect, appreciation and love is a great way to make her feel special. Remember, good or bad, her family or friends will ask her what you've done for her this holiday. Don't make your woman lie or admit that you ignored everything.
2. 2 Celebrate anniversaries. Anniversaries, like little time machines, allow the two of you to return to the day of an important event (wedding, first date, and so on). They give you the chance to relive those special emotions that you experienced in those moments again. Show your woman that you appreciate all these experiences by hosting something special for your anniversary. If you can afford it and your woman will like it, go ahead and do something extravagant. But what could be even more significant and valuable is a postcard or conversation in which you will remember all those important and pleasant moments that you experienced together.
3. 3 Give her meaningful gifts. Gifts that are given from the heart evoke the most gratitude. Take the time and attention to find something that will appeal to your woman, or do it yourself. When you present a gift that has invested time and thoughts, she will not be able to resist and will be moved.
4. 4 Give flowers. Not every woman is fanatical about flowers, but most actually appreciate it, especially if you give flowers for no reason. Bring flowers on your next date, order them delivered to her home or work, if appropriate. A card with the words "Thinking of you" will be enough to make her smile.
5. 5 Tell your friends about it. If she is important to you, your friends should know about it. This does not mean that you should only talk about her now (and never discuss with friends the things that happen in your bedroom), but making everyone clear that she is important to you, you will give her the opportunity to feel significant , not someone you hide from everyone.

Method 4 of 4: Add Romance

1. 1 Remember that little things mean a lot. Along with sweeping gestures, you need to show in small things how much this woman means to you. Caring for something like a cup of coffee in bed, pumping up the wheels of her car is a completely concrete way of saying "I love you" without saying a word. Be consistent. Show every day that you think and care about her, trying to make her life a little happier and easier.
2. 2 Send her messages. Write a small note, send sms or email to let her know what you think of her. If there is an important event coming up in her life - an interview or presentation at work - send her an encouraging message of support.
3. 3 Compliment her. You won't need to answer questions like “Does my butt look bigger in these pants?” If you often compliment your woman about her appearance. Develop all her insecurities by saying cute things about her body parts - she will at least be very grateful; Remember to compliment her about what attracts you the most to her. Don't underestimate the power of the simple phrase “You look great,” which is more than enough.
   • If you heard this question "Does my butt look bigger in these pants?", The correct answer is always "No."
   • We all love to be identified for the things that make us special, so praise your woman for who she is. Is she creative, charming, fun? Do you admire her accomplishments and outlook on life? Tell her about it! And don't forget to look her in the eye when you say this.
4. 4 Let her know. For the first time, let the woman locate your physical contact. No woman wants to be pressured when she is not yet ready for sex, and each woman has her own timing regarding readiness in these matters. Let her know how you feel, but step back (without showing resentment) if she wants to delay intimacy.
5. 5 Turn on pre-love games. Experts agree that, psychologically, pre-play is an important part of sexual health. In fact, Australian studies have found that women are much more aroused by the idea of ​​foreplay than by the sex itself. Hug, touch, and caress your partner, play games, or have dirty conversations. If you're not sure if your woman will like it, ask. Just do it outside the bedroom. It is much easier to talk about it when you are not constrained by the fact that everything is about to start.
6. 6 Ask a question. If you love her, you would rather slow down than force her to do something that she does not want to do. If you are planning to propose to her, make sure it looks appropriate. Buy a ring if you can afford it, stand on one knee and tell her that you cannot imagine yourself living without her, and if she will do you the honor of becoming your wife.

Tips

• Don't break promises.
• Let her know how you feel about being your girlfriend and that you don't represent anyone you would like to be with instead of her.
• Celebrate her looks when she looks good. Tell her that she is beautiful.
• Don't criticize her (unless it's about your feelings). Try to be kind.
• Tell her regularly that she is important to you, that she is special, and that she is beautiful.
• Take her on a romantic getaway to some special place if you're in a relationship, or to a special evening if you're just dating.
• Make her feel like the most wonderful woman in the world.
• Don't skip a romantic period. Some of the better moments are those that lead to sex.
• Buy small gifts for her if you notice that she liked something (do not wait for a reason for this).
• Try to relieve her of tasks that are too difficult for her (fixing an old stereo, repairing and washing a car, etc.).So, she will feel you as her real friend.
• Help her with her projects, whether she asks for help or not! But remember, you don't need a selfish girlfriend - if you do the best you can for her, expect the same in return. She will also happily do whatever she can for you.

Warnings

• Do not insult the woman and her relatives with words.
• When she's upset, show concern if she doesn't mind.
• Don't deceive her. She will lose confidence in you and will not know what to believe and what not.
• Don't overdo it with compliments, don't cheat on yourself by spending all your time with her, or she'll think you are being insincere. Do not neglect her, otherwise she will go to another. Women need to feel welcome.
• Don't compare her to other women.
• Do not make promises that you cannot keep, otherwise you will lose your woman.
• Don't get obsessed with her around the clock, 7 days a week - women need space.
• Remember that every woman is different. Never say things like "I bought you flowers! You should be happy, you are a woman!" or "I paid a lot of money for this, you better make sure you like it."
• Treating women well is one thing, sacrificing self-esteem and dignity is another. Maintain a sense of yourself and your own worth. Monitor your feelings of self-worth and dignity. Someone who respects himself is more attractive anyway.